Assalamualaikum ..aasif jiddan...minta maaf..sorry....sebab
lama tak update...ana sedikit busy dengan homework yg byk..hehe...
Alhamdulillah,mungkin ada sedikit tips yang ingin
dikongsi...hehe...tips apa tu?jeng3...
nak cakap english jap ea...heee
DEEN is The Most Important!
erm...like interesting what you see above....i'm very attracted to read that picture
which is stated in hadith :
Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, reported:Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, her status, her beauty and her religion; so try to get one who is religious, may your hand be besmeared with dust (may you enjoy welfare).
Alhamdulillah if you find women with all of these aspects.
But for the the sake of this thread, let's just look at them individually. If she has property and is loaded and you marry her for that. It may keep you happy for a little bit, but ultimately, her property and wealth is her own and it will never truly be yours. What's hers is hers and what's yours is hers. Plus, her property and wealth can always be taken away.
If you marry her for her status, then again, it may make you happy but you are not marrying her for her only her status and it may cause some problems in the relationship. How long is a status going to last? It may bring you benefits, but it isn't enough for a stable relationship.
Beauty is a beautiful thing, but like most things in this world the outer shell gets old and what you found beautiful, is now old and ugly. It happens to everyone that's why plastic surgery is on the rise now so people can retain their youth, but if you marry someone for only their beauty (and with this I mean outer), then you are marrying someone for a temporary basis, because once their beauty fades will you want them anymore?
Religion is the most important thing, especially if they are firm on the religion. If you think about it, if a sister has religion then their status in the eyes of Allah will be raised, because what she does for the deen and you (she'll know the role of the wife and follow it). Her beauty will always be there (both outer and inner) as the nur will show on her face and her heart. And her property in Jannah will be amazing, plus we all know the best way to get money is to give it and if your wife gives a lot then she'll be rich.
More importantly, even if you are not following the religion perfectly, and let's be honest none of us are, then the deen of your wife will be ingrained in you whether you like it or not. When she constantly is making dhikr, you'll remember that and try to follow her.
Even if you don't, you'll remember the dhikr and inshallah remember Allah through that. Even when they lose everything, their deen will be there.(^_^)
so...let us "renung-renungkan...dan selamat beramal"...heee